The Brands: Caleb and Daddy

Monday, September 20, 2010

Caleb and Daddy

I am driving on Daddy's lap.

We're on African Lion Safari train. I liked the train, it went through gates. Help a Child Smile helped us to go to African Lion Safari.

We're making tomato sauce when it was raining and Daddy was home. It was fun.

This is me driving up to the hostibull not for surgery. I was driving to clinic. I ride my trike into the elevator.

This is an African Lion Safari ostrich. We had a baby ostrich in our van, but it wasn't real, it was a stuffed animal. The big ostrich came to our van.

This is a leopard. It was sleeping.

A goat jumped onto Daddy's back when he was tying his shoe.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...: Love the goat on Tim's back photo. Too funny. I went to Redeemer with Tim....just wanted you to know that my family and I pray for Caleb and the rest of the family every day. May God bless you. Esther (Vanden Brink) Haan; September 20, 2010 at 1:24 PM
Anonymous said...: Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. thanks for sharing your joys and sorrows. Love Richard & Carla; September 21, 2010 at 7:00 PM
anya genevieve said...: looks like you guys had a great trip!! I love the Ostrich picture and Caleb's great 'captions' for the pics :) you're in my daily prayers adn hope to be able to see you guys soon... Blessings and love, anya xoxo; September 22, 2010 at 7:09 PM
Williams Family Blog said...: Caleb, I love your pictures! I am so thankful that you did not have a real baby ostrich in the van though it would have been very funny to see. love from the Williams family, Cliff & Karen, Keegan, Calia and Kira; September 23, 2010 at 9:26 AM
Elzinga Family said...: Caleb,
Thanks for sharing your photos with us.
We always love to see your smile!
the Elzinga's; September 23, 2010 at 8:48 PM

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What is ALL?

Caleb has ALL, a form of leukemia. From what I understand (here's the dummy's guide to leukemia), leukemia means that something has gone wrong in blood cell production.

Blood is made up of 3 main parts, red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets. The red blood cells do things like carry oxygen and nutrients through your body. The white blood cells fight infections and keep you healthy. The platelets glue it all together. (I did say this was the dummy's guide, remember.) Bone marrow is where these cells are made and released into the blood stream.

In Caleb's leukemia, his bone marrow is producing the 3 kinds of cells, but some of the white blood cells are being made wrong. These white blood cells are not maturing, they don't perform any function, and they aren't dying off. They take up space, and made it so that Caleb's red blood cells, functioning white cells, and platelets were having a hard time doing their jobs, and the production of the blasts was taking over. This is why before we were admitted to the hospital, Caleb was tired and pale. His blood just wasn't able to do what it should do.

Chemo treatments are designed to kill back the blasts. The only way to do this has a lot of extra damage (collateral damage) as well, which we see in side effects like hair loss and need for blood transfusions. Because chemo also knocks back regular blood cells, Caleb needs blood and platelet transfusions to replace what is being lost through treatment. White blood cells cannot be transfused, which is why he has nothing to fight off infections. We can't replace those ones. When the drugs are less intense and his body can gradually go back to doing what it should be doing, white blood cell production should return. We will have to be careful for a long time, though.

Hair loss occurs because cells that are replaced often in our body, like hair, can't keep up production. The cells die off faster than they are replaced. Other fast growing/often replaced cells are in our mouths and our nails. These are all affected.

I hope my dummy's guide to leukemia makes sense. It's the way I currently understand things. People in the health care profession may cringe at my descriptions, but hopefully it's accurate enough to explain what Caleb's going through. Maybe it will help you explain it to your kids. For now, we just say we're blasting blasts.

We are the Brands

We are three kids, two parents, and one dog. And too many fish. We love our city, time in the outdoors, playing soccer, camping, and making music. Our faith is central to our lives.

On June 23, pieces of what had previously been a concerning question about our son Caleb's health came together in a diagnosis of leukemia. It all happened rather quickly, after bringing him to the ER at McMaster hospital on Monday, June 21. We're absorbing this news, and trying to learn how to cope with leukemia and a young family. Our hearts are torn, but we feel the love of many.

This blog is intended to share with our loved ones and their loved ones what is happening for Caleb and the rest of us. I must say that it is possibly as much information-giving as it is therapeutic writing. Thank you for taking the time to share with us our experience. We find strength in numbers, and in shared experiences.